You mention that your plants grow out of hand and you prune them.
Unless your growing a bush variety, your aiming to grow a single stemmed plant. In what way do you prune them !! I've been growing for many years and not once have I pruned a tomato plant. Do you mean - the removal of a sucker - the shoots that grow in between leaf joints. If these are not removed, then yes, it will grow like a triffid.
Also, when your plant has produced four sets of flowering trusses, pinching or cutting out the growing tip at the top, stops the plant from getting any taller. This tells the plant to concentrate all its energy towards the fruit.
I've just re-read you question. By the way, which type of tomato plant are you trying to grow?!?!
A cordon, single stem(or indeterminate) tomatoes grow tall (can reach up 2m/6ft) and require staking; bush (or determinate) tomatoes are bushy, and don’t require staking.
You mention your growing determinate/bush in your question, but it seems your trying to grow it like a cordon/ single. Hmmmmm