I,had hibiscus that suddenly got old. Looking at it more closely it really got top heavy without me noticing it. It started to lean, got loose at tne root, yellowing foliage and loads of bare branches. It was about 12' high, full of red/white flowers but deteriorated over 2 years. I found it easy to remove. Now, you asked about competition from other shrubs and this is what I think caused problems for my hibiscus. It likes dry conditions but mine was very dry..too dry. I have another in a better position in the garden and this is fine. I think it wise to prune hibiscus every year to keep it compact, etc. I think the plant is inclined to be top heavy.. so. I would try pruning it fairly hard, even now.