I bought my first orchid 7 years ago, I now have 15. Just like alicerose I am awful with remembering to water houseplants, but luckily the orchids quite lke this. They get watered whenever I remember, and get fed once a year (if I remember). The first one I cut off the stem after the flowers fell off, just like the instructions said - big mistake! It didn't flower again for another 2 years. Although I had loved the flowers so much I had to go out and get more. Having learnt my lesson I just chop of the stem just above the next node below the flowering one. Some of them only flower twice a year, and others flower all year long, but they always keep their flowers for months. I do find that the ones that are being sold off do need a bit more TLC than I give the others though, although that isn't hard! My Gran had one bought for her when she was ill, she was quite upset when it died a few weeks later, and told me she couldn't understand as she watered it every other day lol. Great to read about all your experiences with these gorgous 'put a smile on your face' plants.