There is 1 sure thing about gardening...it can be frustrating. When all is going well FANTASTIC when it's not, there is not a thing you can do about it but just to start again. The 1 thought that you should keep in your mind is that, despite all those frustrations, one day you will see your 'pretty weeds' in all their glory, the bees will appear and you WILL be able to sunbathe...tho don't forget the sunscreen :)