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15/10/2013 at 17:09

Cant find Teadrinkers thread - what happening???

15/10/2013 at 17:15

I thought i was just going to look and find it for you dolgarrog. But I can't.

Is anything else missing?

15/10/2013 at 17:19

Can't find it DDolgarrog have looked through the pages its not there

15/10/2013 at 17:19

Oops bit of a stutter 

15/10/2013 at 17:38

No luck i'm afraid,  just looked through my followed threads and its not there either.  

15/10/2013 at 17:39

It was there at lunchtime.  perhaps we ought to notify Daniel.

KEF
15/10/2013 at 17:44

I wonder if it's been pulled after offer of a |hit squad" ..can't find it in MY POSTS, just disappeared. Hope tea hasn't had Email from moderator about it..I've been told that does sometimes happen.

15/10/2013 at 17:47

Tea stated quite categorically that the offer of staking out the park/dilbert was not wanted and that she was dealing with it. I did suggest that she go to the papers as she was getting nowhere with the police. That was at lunchtime.

15/10/2013 at 17:56

Yes definitely there earlier I was reading through some of it.

15/10/2013 at 18:22

The papers can go horriby wrong as any reporter is bound to ask Dilbert for his views of his neighbours.  Not likely to be complimentary is he?  

15/10/2013 at 18:41

Can't find it either.  Daniel must know what's happened

15/10/2013 at 18:41

Can't find it either.  Daniel must know what's happened

Tea,,you still there?

KEF
15/10/2013 at 18:59

2 wheel Gardener thank you for the link.

Even if Tea's account has had to be closed she can surely still view the forum, but not sign in.

Tea we still care about you, stay safe love.

15/10/2013 at 19:57

this is strange tea, hope you are ok. Even in my post history my comments from that thread have gone.

15/10/2013 at 22:32

Oh no Tea - I feel really sorry for you & your wonderful family. God bless you & keep you all safe xxx esther

16/10/2013 at 02:35

OMG what did I miss poor poor tea I will miss her and lew 

I really feel for her we all supported her and I felt we were all helping.

I will be sorry not too hear the out come. tea you are welcome to get in touch via my blog and I could pass messages on to the fourm if you want 

I will also post this message on the other thread where is tea's thread in hope you get this message love you tea and my heart is with you give lew a hug as well from me

James XX

16/10/2013 at 06:21

Tea drinker has posted on here so obviously her account's not been frozen, just that thread has been removed.

I do think it's as well to remember that no matter how friendly and supportive this forum is, it is a Public forum that anyone can read and join - we need to protect ourselves by not disclosing too many personal details.

It's also worth remembering that there are two sides to every story, and sometimes neighbour/boundary disputes that appear straightforward when posted on here, can seem quite different when viewed from another person's perspective.  

Discussing the lives and behaviour of other people without their permission could be vewed as harassment in itself.  I'm not saying this was the case with Teadrinker, but I do think that we have to be careful, when we're being supportive to people with problems, not to get overcome with enthusiasm and remember to retain a balanced view, otherwise we're not really being of any help.  Hope that's ok? 

16/10/2013 at 07:47

Gonna miss tea updates..... Sad that a " chilling post" was put on. Dove that is very eloquent way of putting the message forward...

16/10/2013 at 07:56

Well said Dove. Could Tea not stay, change her name and just chat about gardening items and our general chat!

16/10/2013 at 07:59

Sorry meant to put ? not !

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