Oh Dean! Although these things happen, it's horrible when you're the victim yourself.
Big virtual hugs, and Karma is a B**ch! What goes round, comes round. Chin up buddy. 
Made 24 fairy cakes, and madam is all bathed and clean, ready for the party of the year tomorrow. She's excited. I'm dreading it. A community hall filled with hyped up, fancy dressed 3/4 year olds, high on sugar and fizzy pop is not my idea of a nice Saturday afternoon out!! 