Posted: 30/10/2014 at 15:49
we all went out for tea today, and I could see at once it did my mum good. she looked happier than she had done in ages. my sister said "can we move on and not say any more" I said yes, altho I wanted to talk about what had gone on I felt I have to let it go for the sake of my mum whos 80.
yes,i do feel im owed an apology from the nephew,but waiting for that is like waiting for him to get a job...
altho we all talked there was an elephant in the room, and he was not mentioned.mind you, none of us see him much anyhow as he is usually in bed all day,a couple of times a year we see him.
so,my relationship with my sister has changed, but hopefully with some time can heal.
thanks again guys for some great advice xx