Posted: 01/09/2013 at 10:33
It seems that you should be taking some of the good advice you have been giving out
One of the big problems today is people do not like being told "NO" they dont like being told what to do for the best, and the same people have problem after problem.
You appear to be having problem after problem not with the content of your messages but the manner in which they have been written and people on the forum have tactfully pointed this out to you.
It sounds like it is now up to you to take on board your own advice and observations and those of the board and see if you can sow your seeds more productively...