Posted: 25/07/2014 at 08:51
Rosemummy, I'm pleased to know that you've solved your SP problem.
I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum to you, my children are all grown-up (I'm now blessed with 2 grandchildren)...so I do have the t-shirt.
With the above in mind I would suggest leave gardening matters until you have the time to enjoy it (what time, I hear you say) because gardening is relaxation that should be enjoyed.
Trust me, sooner than you think, the children will understand that mummy needs her own time.