Posted: 16/10/2013 at 06:21
Tea drinker has posted on here so obviously her account's not been frozen, just that thread has been removed.
I do think it's as well to remember that no matter how friendly and supportive this forum is, it is a Public forum that anyone can read and join - we need to protect ourselves by not disclosing too many personal details.
It's also worth remembering that there are two sides to every story, and sometimes neighbour/boundary disputes that appear straightforward when posted on here, can seem quite different when viewed from another person's perspective.
Discussing the lives and behaviour of other people without their permission could be vewed as harassment in itself. I'm not saying this was the case with Teadrinker, but I do think that we have to be careful, when we're being supportive to people with problems, not to get overcome with enthusiasm and remember to retain a balanced view, otherwise we're not really being of any help. Hope that's ok?