Posted: 08/09/2015 at 10:31
Yvie ((hugs)) is there another hospital your mum could go to? I can understand that she feels anxious about going back to where she had such an awful time.
Towards the end Pa stated very firmly that he didn't want to go back into hospital and that whatever happened he wanted to remain at The Lovely Home - he said this to his GP and it was put in writing on his notes and on the computer system. When he was taken poorly the GP and the Practice Nurses managed his symptoms and kept him comfortable. If it was out of hours the Emergency Doctor who attended was shown a copy of the relevant papers on his file and all was done as he wanted. However, it was known that he did not have long left.
Good luck to your OH with his op. Fingers crossed here for a very postive outcome