Posted: 13/07/2017 at 09:26
Speaking as someone who was involved in the construction industry for 25 years, I wholeheartedly agree with Raisingirl and your engineer neighbour ... very sensible advice. And take no notice of 'old dears' with too little to do and too much to say
And I know how one person's anxiety spills over and affects everyone ... please try to keep each problem 'in it's own box' and remember that when you have to eat an elephant you need to do it 'one bite at a time'.
I'm sorry the doctor has put the wind up you ... these things do need sorting out but don't get into a flat spin about it ... lots of my family, including me, have had moles, lesions lumps and bumps etc removed - some were turning nasty, some weren't ... but all of us are still here many years on. The hospital has photographs of my many moles so that changes can be monitored. Try to keep calm about it. ((hugs))
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