Posted: 05/02/2015 at 10:51
Pauline....you have some wonderful ideas there.
The French always decorate graves with pansies- the french word for pansy is "pensee" which means "thoughts". I always take a tiny posy of pansies to place on the coffin at a funeral, and plant pansies in my garden to remember specific people. They are not reliably perennial so if you want to keep them going you need to save a few seeds each year.