Posted: 12/04/2014 at 16:45
Bill saved you for last
They are seriously lovely cattleyas.
I don't "see" you as becoming frail, the journeys you've done in snow to hospital etc. Maybe Mrs.Bill is feeling very vulnerable and elderly after your tragic loss. She might feel different when you get some good weather, I hope so. Can't imagine you moving where you have no garden.
I'm going to be blunt here, excuse is I'm a Yorkshire lass It's got to be joint decision, if you have no garden and activity outdoors won't that have a bigger impact on you both? Gardener's moan about aches & pains but we feel so good after achieving something outside.
If you do move can't you take your lilies with you?