Posted: 13/04/2016 at 00:09
That's the worse thing Steve, my friend lost her son in car accident, she will never get over it, but with us here, I am so pleased I can look after my dad, he's completely dependant on me now, as he's too weak to even move, but when he goes, it won't be a shock, and I will give thanks for him, I won't think about missing him because I know this will be what he wants.
It must be worse when you suddenly hear your loved one has gone.
My heart goes out to everyone on this thread, as Verdun says, very important.
I must give a big thank you to Verdun, he has supported me this year and last when I was in the same position with mum, even though his own mum was very ill, so thank you mate, means a lot to have you for a friend.
Thank you to everyone who has PM'd me and emailed, I will answer you all when I can.
Overwhelmed with the kindness.