Posted: 17/07/2017 at 14:12
Punkdoc, .. I think you have it sussed out very well, it's amazing what a second time around does for you, man and woman, you learn a lot more tolerance, don't want to go through separation again, you learn what really matters and what doesn't.
men and women's mind are completely different, they are not mind readers, whereas women are😀
You have to ask them what you want done, don't expect them to instinctively know, they don't.
If you are thrashing around, struggling to do something, they are reluctant to step in and do it for you for fear of patronising, I think men get a bad deal these days, they knew where they were when the wife stayed at home, kept house and looked after the children. They are not so sure of their roles in life these days.
girls, feel free to step in and beat me with a stick😀😀😀😀😀