Posted: 09/01/2015 at 22:31
Thats great news Matty, remember when I told you about my cousin, thats is exactly the same as yours, and 12 years later she is still perfectly fine, I think this is all looking very positive for you.
Mum wont hear of sending for doctor, nurse, hospital, tablets, nothing. I am just going to let her do as she wishes, see to her daily needs and leave her go. My family said they would all stand by me in the case of a neglect claim against me.
Probably better she slips away with pneumonia than wait for the cancer to flare up, lesser of the two evils. In the mean time I will carry on being very patient with her.
Its all very silly because in September they told us she only had weeks, not months, now they say, from the last urine test there is no sign of the lump altering, changing or growing, she has no pain and if we didnt know about it, you couldnt tell she had it.
If she got her lungs right, she would be ok, but she wont hear of it, and my mum is one you really dont want to cross!!
Thank you for your support, and I really feel for Joyce, I know that feeling of being helpless in the situation.