Posted: 02/09/2014 at 12:40
My thoughts are with you alll
I care for my parents, dads 90 mums 86, but I am so fortunate to have been able to have a lovely 2 bedrommed extension built onto their bungalow so I am here all the time.
I also feel fortunate because I am an only child so all decision are just mine.
When my MIL was in care, there were 5 children and they all had to ring each other when anything needing deciding.
Although Verdun has a brother, it may not be a bad thing that you are alone in this.