Posted: 04/12/2014 at 09:41
Dove, when I asked the Disrict nurse if they supplied ...what we used to call 'draw(er)sheets' she said we are lucky to get a nurse call these days, most of their info is relayed over the phone, she said they talk us through it!
Like yours, my mum has always put of minor ops until they become major ones, its infuriating but I am learning that its no good wasting energy on what might have been. She is an adult, so must make her own decisions, which is ok until something happens then she panics and goes to pieces!
It seems we are all thinking the same about our loved ones and its comforting to know that.
I have learned, just lately that it is their life so why should we take it upon ourselves?
But of course we do, because we love them.