Posted: 14/06/2015 at 18:42
Jo this is the one that most resembles your pic in the 'flesh'. If it's what it's supposed to be it will have black berries. The young leaves are reddish like those in your pic, (but so are the young leaves of many shrubs).
I have a lot of natives but far from exclusively. I am a browser of non mainstream seed catalogues and seed swaps and grow things I've never heard of. Like the above which sold itself to me because of the black berries. I haven't seen them yet it's only in the second year from seed