Posted: 22/06/2016 at 10:10
DD - you need to forewarn someone that you are worried so they can keep an eye and react swiftly if needs be - school director, social services, police, family support etc. Local communes in Belgium have these so I expect you do too.
I know it's hard after years of being worn down but you do have to stand up for yourself and tell him his behaviour is unnacceptable and that the marriage is over and that you and Charlie are not leaving your home. Take steps now to secure your local bank account and assets before you confront him.