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Worries & troubles that affect Forum friends.

Posted: 16/10/2014 at 10:13

Thank you all for the hugs even a virtual hug is comforting. In the rush through Hospital August quite a few of the nurses and sisters gave me a hug after examination, after the op in a private room next to the nurses station if they had a few minutes they would come in and chat, even the cleaners, it lifts you no end.

Verdun it never goes away, my daughters were packing black bags for charity and I was unpacking them I still wanted Joan around. There is no point in telling those suffering they are wrong about anything they are not in our world but some distant in time world, Joan could still sing the words to those old songs I played for her. Advice I would give is never raise your voice ever no  matter how frustrated, never say no, and never say they are wrong. Lay out all the old pictures, play the music they once knew so well and play Video's of the old musicals and films, Fred and Ginger went down well.

Frank.

Worries & troubles that affect Forum friends.

Posted: 15/10/2014 at 16:34

DFA,  In the early days Joan would be sitting with her coat on at eleven o clock at night saying can we go home now, I discovered a gentle patience I never knew I had as I explained we have lived her for 25 years, I have no idea where she thought home was. Then I could not get her to come out of the bedroom until they had all gone. All who? those people in the back room I do not know who they are can you get them to go. There were only the two of us in the house. It lasted nearly seven years, she died three and a half years ago not knowing who I was, the hurt is terrible, you end up in shock and I could never talk about it until recently. Having to fill in a paper on my status and for the first time writing widower, it was a shock to the system. With the latest information it seems we were doing all the right things, the old pictures on the walls and table, the musical video's she loved and the music. talking about the past, the grandchildren helped as her attitude turned to one of love and care when they were with us, they would sit with her an arm round her neck and Joan would perk up only to sink back when they left.

The family rallied around though gradually we all became strangers to her, it is horrible, I ask why Joan and now so many people are having to cope, my heart goes out to them.

Frank.

Her Poor knees

Posted: 15/10/2014 at 15:04

Alan found it.

Draper 64970 Seat kneeler Amazon £22.95. Certainly a good solid job and "ahem" cost me nothing a present from Daughter.

Frank.

Her Poor knees

Posted: 15/10/2014 at 12:41

Alan no name on it but in four languages it says do not stand on cushion??? it folds up for storage and I think my Daughter got it for me from M&S a long time ago.

Frank.

Her Poor knees

Posted: 14/10/2014 at 09:33

I have a good metal stool kneeling pad, when in the kneeling position it is a couple of inches off the soil so when I turn it the pad is not wet or dirty. The strong legs make it ideal for lowering yourself down and getting up again, a good pad either side makes it comfortable and it gets well used, definitely one of the best tools in my collection I would not be without it plus it cost me nothing it was a present, best of all worlds.

Frank.

Strictly 2014

Posted: 13/10/2014 at 16:17

As I would say in the Desert, if Darcy poked her head under my tent flap I would divorce the female Camel and sling her out. Of course out there you just turned round four times saying "I divorce thee" and it was done, she got half the tent, half my stock of Bully Beef and three bottles of very warm Stella beer.

Frank.

Dryer water

Posted: 13/10/2014 at 14:01

Dryer water will contain elements from the washing soap no matter how you rinse it.

Our water in the Teesside area is soft water (kettles never fur} and contains fluoride I use it on plants when the rain water butts are empty with no dire results and I still have all but one of my teeth. A lot of nonsense is talked about what is in our water, where ever you live the water will have some additives from the natural rock, the reason we get hard or soft water depends on where it lands as rain. If you ever drank water that had been through a water softening plant for boilers you would think it totally tasteless, it will not even make a cup of tea. We need additives and minerals we get in water and so do plants.

Frank.

Strictly 2014

Posted: 13/10/2014 at 10:04

Long dresses hide dodgy footwork and it is the feet that count not the play acting, that is to a dancer watching, those who do not dance will enjoy the antics and gimmicks so expect a few upsets with the phone in. My hit list in order are Scott, Tim, Judy, Steve.

And Caroline to win. 

Frank.

Glass V Polycarbonate Greenhouse

Posted: 13/10/2014 at 09:56

Glass is not recommended on an allotment, you will always get the vandals throwing stones, they tend to bounce of poly where as a broken roof window when you are not there can wreck all the plants in the greenhouse. The size is a matter of what you do with it my 8x6 wall greenhouse gives me all the space I need with the help of frames to harden off.

Frank.

Strictly 2014

Posted: 12/10/2014 at 22:18

Simon should not have been there at all, we have seen it in other series where some one has not been taken to heart by the public. I thought Jenifer would be the one with Scott in the dance off so yes by a round about route the right one went.

Frank.

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