Posted: 20/06/2017 at 18:08
I realise the OP received serious advice to start with - my point was simply that a physical disability wan't mentioned. I too suggested that he employed someone else to do the job for him/her. You can only go so far with sensible advice - it is then, as always, up to the person concerned whether they take advice or do the other thing.
Apart from anything else, if the OP is that into Zen, he/she should surely be more relaxed about nature.
How odd that Dr. ( oops - should that be Mr ? ) Beecham is not advising his namesake for some relief. Ah well, let's hope one goes off and performs surgery on the other.