Posted: 12/07/2017 at 16:22
If it is simply a question of your neighbour spraying weedkiller on your garden, whether it annoys her or not, she has no right to do that but it would probably cost you an arm and a leg to persuade her to behave.
If you have difficulty in getting outside yourself but want to make a garden, there may well be someone in your area who is in the opposite situation - i.e. has no garden but would love to have a patch of ground to grow stuff in. There is usually a compromise in these situations which I imagine you would be prepared to discuss. If affordable, a local person who could do the heavy work and clear the area for you is an option. Obviously, you would then have to maintain it - yourself or a monthly gardener ? There is no real easy solution.
Neglected/overgrown gardens can be a point of contention between neighbours - it is never an easy situation but it is always wise to take in a neighbour's situation too - if the lady is on her own, painting a fence can take a while - other things to do, etc ?
Hope you manage to make yourself a nice relaxing patch