Shrinking Violet

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Bird ID

Posted: 26/04/2017 at 19:16

They also, allegedly, love Niger seed.  However, they will only eat that when there isn't enough in the sunflower heart feeder!  But we have had as many as 28 in our small garden - many on the feeders, and many more scavenging on the ground for the seed that has fallen below the bird feeder. 

Of all the British birds, this is one of the most exotic-looking and, according to RSPB surveys, one of the success stories of recent years.

I love them - and waste a lot of time just observing them and marvelling at their bright colours.

If I had a brain I'd be dangerous!

Posted: 10/04/2017 at 11:38

Oh, the relief to know that it's not just me, then!  And Kitty, I can sympathise with the oven problem.  I set the oven to pre-heat ready to pop the roasting joint in.  Trouble was, I had turned on the small oven rather than the large one, and the Chicken wouldn't fit!  So, having wasted the electricity, I had to put on the large oven, and timings for dinner were about 20 minutes later than planned.  (You'd think I would have learned from the mistake, but I regret to admit that I've done that a couple of times.

If I had a brain I'd be dangerous!

Posted: 09/04/2017 at 17:35

If I had a brain I would have known that those tulips which, on the pack, said they were "an unusual colour combination" which looked dull and uninteresting (basically, beige with pinkish beige) would be - mega-boring and - well, beige!

And when I planted another trough with tulips - some cream am some purple, and the cream ones, described as 10" but were actually 15" which dwarfed the purple ones, instead of just moaning about it I should instantly have seen that all I had to do was . . . . . . . . . . .  turn the trough around so the cream ones were at the back!  Simples. (it took me a couple of days to work that one out.  'nuff said!)

And when I said I could manage with a smaller greenhouse because my new garden is a lot smaller than before, I should have known that I would quickly run out of space for seedlings, over-wintered plants etc.

And when I said that, with the new-to-us house with a small garden would be fine - I was self-delusional.

If only I wasn't a scarecrow from the Wizard of Oz, I would have had half a brain and would have known these things.

Please tell me I'm not alone!

Plants arrived from

Posted: 06/04/2017 at 20:03

These plants are not frost-hardy.  You can put them outside during the day - but they need overnight protection until the threat of frost has passed.  This is usually thought of as being the end of May/beginning of June, depending where in the country you are. 

As in many things gardening - make haste slowly!  ie don't rush to plant things outside or to make quick judgements.  Quite often I have found the "wait and see" philosophy has stood me in good stead.  (There have been some exceptions, of course .  .  .  )


Plants arrived from

Posted: 06/04/2017 at 19:47

I think they will probably survive ok.  I would do as they have suggested, rather than rushing to plant them out.  The wilting leaves can be picked off, but the main plants look as if they are healthy enough.  I have had plants that have come out of over-wintering looking not dissimilar, and with a little bit of TLC they have performed very well.

By all means express your concerns with the supplying company, but give them a bit of a chance to recuperate from being lifted, packaged and posted.

One of the good guys

Posted: 22/03/2017 at 17:56

Last year OH ordered a selection of Bletilla for me (Telegraph offer).  The bare roots supplied were not good.  Even though I tended the plants carefully, they did not thrive.

This was reported to Hayloft, who promised replacements.  They couldn't fulfil this immediately, and promised to do so in "mid March" this year. 

Cynically, having heard nothing, I assumed that it would be yet another promise unfulfilled.

Hats off to Hayloft - replacements have arrived today (looking much healthier than last year, so I have high hopes of good plants).  No charge - not even for postage.

It's easy to criticise.  But this is fulsome praise for a company that admits to faults with the original supply, and follows up with the replacements.

I am one happy bunny!!

Claiming a grass verge?

Posted: 10/02/2017 at 21:19

You don't say how long you have lived in the property.  There are laws regarding what is known as "Adverse possession".  Prior to 2003 you had to have had access to, and quiet possession of the land in question for 12 years;  after that date, subject to specific conditions, the time period is 10 years,  The law is complex, and you may wish to take advice on the subject.  But if you raise the issue and the true owner comes forward, you may have to abandon any claim for adverse possession.  You didn't raise the issue when you bought the property, and the land is not included in the deeds.  It may be an uphill struggle to have any meaningful claim to ownership or rights to the land in question.  A solicitor would be best able to help, I think.

Privacy from play house

Posted: 15/01/2017 at 14:39

Rules governing planning permission for a playhouse used to be max 4metres height (3 metres to the eaves) and 1 metre away from a boundary.  Rules change, so it is worth double checking.  But with all neighbour (potential) disputes, it is sometimes better for all concerned to talk first.

Privacy from play house

Posted: 15/01/2017 at 14:21

Evangeline - have you spoken with the neighbours?  Do they realise how upset you are?  It may be some sort of compromise can be reached on a friendly basis rather than relying council intervention.  But I do like the suggestion from Obelixx - and you would be able to enjoy the roses for years to come, long after next doors' little darlings have grown up!

Who's visiting your bird feeders?

Posted: 28/12/2016 at 20:13

Long Tailed Tits come into our garden mob-handed.  Suddenly there is a twittering and a squawking, and there they are, taking over the feeding station.  Then - as suddenly as they arrived they are gone.  Shame - they are such pretty birds:  it's a pleasure to have them as visitors.

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