Shrinking Violet

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Crikey! I thought "I" was crazy😵

Posted: 03/12/2016 at 17:25

Are we to believe that all vegetarians are so precious that they cannot even touch something derived from an animal, no matter how insignificant the actual animal "contaminant" is?

Sorry - I just don't buy into this non story.  If it was a matter of eating a product - that would be an entirely different matter.  But one doesn't eat a £5 note, plastic or otherwise. (normally)

If such sensitivity must be taken into account on behalf of what is probably a "ready-to-be-offended" minority, then we must all of us stop wearing wool (in case we accidently brush up against someone) or leather (in case we accidently kick their shins or brush a handbag against bare flesh) perfume (which odour may offend because of its constituent chemicals) or using any other product which may contaminate just such a person,

Nope,  Not going to go there.  I appreciate and respect others' beliefs, religious or not.  I will not seek to offend them or put them in distress.  I expect the same courtesy in response, which means they we should all get a life and keep a sensible perspective.

Last edited: 03 December 2016 17:27:23

A Place To Call Home

Posted: 02/12/2016 at 20:33

Thanks aym - I'll make sure to watch it all.  I missed some episodes, I think, but I'll try not to make the same mistake again.

A Place To Call Home

Posted: 02/12/2016 at 20:12

Is this the series set in Australia, with a dysfunctional family (aren't they always?) with the matriarch from hell?  If so, I shall make sure to watch it again - it was extremely good the first time I saw it. It was set shortly after the second world war, if I remember correctly, and there were some good plot lines. And there was a promise of a further series, I think.

Christmas decorations

Posted: 01/12/2016 at 16:16

DoghouseRiley - that took me back to the 1950s when we had those ornamental lights:  a Santa, a Parrot (yes, really!) a Snowman amongst others.  They didn't last long, though, so plain lights were then the order of the day.

Our set of lights (which my brother still has, with some of the original bulbs) was bought by my father in 1953 for celebrating the Coronation.  The price on the Pifco box says 17/6 and there are 12 lamps in a loop arrangement.

When you think of the average wage in those days (perhaps about £10 per week?  I'm guessing here) the investment in one set of decorative lamps was huge.  But they have lasted, and lasted, and lasted and . . . .

Christmas decorations

Posted: 29/11/2016 at 23:15

Pansy I love your local tradition of local carols.  Here in the West country, there are many local carols, too, but the main focus is on "Old" Christmas: 6th January:  Wassail (Christmas with pagan overtones - but good fun, nevertheless).  Songs for a good apple harvest, toast dipped in cider to placate the spirits of the apple tree, and firing of shotguns (or a large noise of drums) to drive out those evil spirits!  Oh, and copious amounts of mulled cider all round.

Christmas decorations

Posted: 29/11/2016 at 22:09

Sunday 27th November was Advent Sunday.  Therefore, the coming of Christmas has already started.  We lit our first Advent candle on Sunday, and will then light the second next Sunday and so on  up until the fourth Sunday of Advent, this year on 18th December.  It's very early this year because Christmas Day falls on a Sunday.  But we wont put our main decorations up until Mid-December.

Beans and Sweetcorn combo?

Posted: 27/11/2016 at 20:39

I think this sytem is called the "Three sisters" - sweetcorn, beans and squash.  I tried it a couple of times, and found it really didn't work.  That may be because our climate isn't quite right.  Or I may have been over-ambitious.  But I don't think I would sacrifice garden space for it again.

Your worst Christmas present!

Posted: 25/11/2016 at 15:25

My worst was a surprise, unasked for and unwanted three-tier vegetable steamer.  Eventually I did use it, and was moaned at because the vegetables were not cooked properly and unseasoned.  It was given to a charity shop.

I also received a coffee maker one year.  I wanted an espresso machine.  This one, which took up a lot of work surface space, had a filter jug (don't do filter) a milk frother (I drink it black) and - yay! an espresso.  I deigned to use it, but it is now history - too big, too awkward and more than I wanted in the first place.

Memories of the past

Posted: 23/11/2016 at 15:48

Go karts were known as Jiggers in my part of North London, which was probably to do with the orange boxes that were nabbed from the greengrocer on the local market stall, whose family name was Jiggins.  Then with a bit of simple engineering, purloined pram wheels and bits of skipping rope, the jiggers were raced up and down the street, or converted into temporary carriers when we collected piles of newspapers and took them down to the paper mill to get extra pocket money. 

Chinkies were known as Jacks, and required a lot of skill the further you progressed.  Likewise two-ball against the wall, chanting various rhymes, only one of which I can remember:

My little red ball went over the wall, I told my mum.  She smacked my bum, And made it R E D (the word spelled out with extra bounces of the balls). 

Or skipping  "Salt, mustard, vinegar, pepper" - the last word being a double turn of the rope.  Or a long piece of rope (washing line) twirled from one side of the road to the other, with anything up to a dozen people running in to join the skipping, though I can't remember the special rhymes for that.

Nothing to do with gardening

Posted: 23/11/2016 at 15:34

I once made the mistake of getting some pine-scented oil, sprinkling it on fir cones and placing them on a radiator, theoretically to mimic the smell of a Christmas tree.  I threw them away when son's friends (from primary school) came back to play and said, "It smells like toilet cleaner"    Out of the mouths of babes . . . .

But then for many years I used Body Shop's oil "Brandied Apple".  It became synonymous with Christmas for us - until they stopped making it.  (The shop assistant said, when asked, that HO had stopped it because there was no demand, but that I was one of several who had requested it.  Never let it be said that the customer is always right!)

I have just recently discovered wax melts, and I bought at a GC one called "Christmas Tree" and it really, really does smell just like - well, a Christmas tree, subtly perfuming the whole house;  I shall definitely get some more.

Last edited: 23 November 2016 15:35:42

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