Posted: 02/06/2013 at 20:09
I would tell that neighbour that instead of hounding you he/she could pull their finger out and give you a hand or at least some positive advice. If that's not possible, tell them to mind their own business and ignore them.
I'm sure someone on here with experience will advise you how to proceed, step by step in simple terms that a novice will understand!
Chin up and don't despair!