Posted: 07/01/2018 at 19:17
Thanks Logan. It's my third pregnancy and third miscarriage. I just don't seem to be able to get further than 12 weeks. The last two pregnancies were from IVF. It's great that I can get pregnant, just frustrating that I can't carry them. We've decided to have some time off. It feels really good not to be pumped full of drugs. Hoping 2018 is a fertile year in more ways than one though!
I don't allow myself to be upset for more than a week or so because if I let go of my feelings I fear that I'd be forever sad. Instead, I focus on being thankful for what we have, and outside of my immediate family, I get the most joy from my kitty cat and my garden.
I am most concerned about how my own cat (Sydeny) will react if I keep the stray. Sydeny was an 8 year old rescue from the Cats Protection League, with sight issues. He's now 11 and full of beans but he hasnt ever lived with another cat. The stray is about 5 years old and is a pretty tough little chap and full to the brim of character. My neighbour has two kittens that she's planning on letting out in a few weeks. I am worried that the stray will bully them too. I might call my vet tomorrow and ask his opinion on castration and if that will calm him down (the stray that is, not the vet)!