Posted: 05/05/2015 at 18:22
Blue Dragon, I,think you are over thinking this. You are sensitive to their possible judgement of you but I dont think its happening. They seem just to want to help you.
just relax. ,gardening is a long term thing really ....at least it takes a bit of time to get things as you would like them. Even then I,would guess that most of us here are never satisifed with our gardens and are constantly changing, tinkering or improving them.
why not ask your neighbours, when chatting to them, what they do in their gardens and how they do it. Without going into details you could mention you are not overly physically able.
why not post a picture or two here on the forum thus keeping in touch with us.
yes, Blue, good luck and thnk positive. Think ahead not about the past