I think we have the same thing. Two berberis, young plants in a tub. Small up to 1cm larvae, as far as I can see a uniform dark grey, lots of frass, of course lots of leaf loss. Interestingly, and not so far mentioned in this blog, a fine network of what appear to be very untidy spider web like filaments all over the plant. Anyone else seen these?? Maybe this isn't the dreaded sawfly??
Finally a similar but much less serious outbreak is affecting three small Escalonias, also in pots in an oak barrel.